1 Peter 3:8,9

Being A Blessing In the Lives of Others

Peter concludes his discussion of the Christian's treatment of others by telling all to have five special attitudes. First, Christ's followers should be united in thought under the same Lord, baptized by one baptism into one body, through one Spirit, looking forward to one home in heaven, proclaiming one gospel and worshipping one God (Ephesians 4:1-6; 1 Corinthians 1:10; 1 Corinthians 12:13). Second, a conscious effort should be made to feel with others in joy and sorrow (1 Corinthians 12:26; Romans 12:15). Third, it is the duty of Christians to love each other as brothers from the same family (John 13:34-35; 1 Thessalonians 4:9; 1 John 3:14). Fourth, believers are to be tenderhearted, or pitiful. The word here is the same as in Ephesians 4:32.

Christians should be especially sensitive to the suffering of others (Hebrews 13:3). Fifth, God's children are to be courteous, or humbleminded, which is the opposite of a haughty, proud spirit. The first concern should be directed to the needs of others (1 Peter 3:8; 1 Peter 2:3-4; Romans 12:10).

Christians should not seek revenge, or to pay someone back for a wrong they may have committed against them (Romans 12:19-21; Matthew 5:38-44).

Neither are they to speak evil about someone who has spoken evil about them. Instead, they should speak well of them, when possible, and call upon God to help them (1 Peter 3:9; Matthew 5:44; Luke 23:34; Acts 7:60).

Remember, Christians were called by God when they were his enemies. He sent his Son to die for them, and because of Christ's blood, forgives them. Therefore, each should bless his enemies and forgive them repeatedly.